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There is no finality with pivoting. It's not like we just wake up one day and magically, all of our insecurities disappear, and we've reached our peak of loving ourselves. We are constantly pivoting our thoughts, our actions, our choices.

It doesn't matter where you are, what your skin color is, what your religion is, where you came from, you still have the ability to learn new ways to do things, new ways to think, and new ways to be.

Shit is hard. Every day. It's easy to forget all we have to be grateful for when we're in the midst of a storm inside ourselves. But storms always pass. They may come in hard and rearrange some things, but the sun always comes back out, and we're typically even stronger because of it. And more often than not, the storms that make us uncomfortable are there in order to get us to move.

It's not always been easy for me to speak up. I still sometimes get that little knot in my stomach or butterflies when I am about to say something that could cause me to feel rejection or excitement. You know, that physiological effect that nervousness has on your body. That's not fear though. It's excitement.

I want you to remember that if you're feeling this way, the bad days will pass, and there is no experience we can't learn from or overcome when love is present. Even if that love comes solely from within you.

Anxiety is basically fear in a nutshell. It doesn't have to be a bad or negative thing. It can actually help lead us into some areas we don't necessarily like to look at. What are we afraid of? It can help lead us to our truth. It can help us grow. If we use it as something that guides us, it can ultimately be our friend.

It's okay to pause. It's okay to sleep in. Listen to your body and your heart. You are still growing in this space, and things are still aligning perfectly.